The question I have been married to the same man for years. However, I keep going over what happened 45 years ago when my husband had an affair. I was in my 20s with four young children and I was young and naive. It took a long time for me to get over it. It’s only recently that I’ve asked him about it. He says he was flattered that someone was interested. Why do I still have it at the back of my mind? Can you please let me know why?
Philippa’s answer It’s still in your mind because you haven’t had a decent explanation from him – his explanation